UNCONSCIOUS DIGNITY:
He is four, still has baby fat and sweet little voice. He’s just back from a birthday party.
He borrows my big scissors to carefully cut around the tattoo stickers that came in his loot bag. After spreading them precisely across the table top, he asks for a wet cloth. He places it at the back of the table, then says, “Now, Grandma, which one would you like?”
I make my selection. He places the paper on my arm, image-side down, covers it with the cloth, then wraps his hand firmly around my wrist and begins counting to 30. A professional confidently doing his job.
DIGNITY STOLEN:
My neighbour pulled into a gas station and asked for $20.00 of gas. A short time later the attendant came to her window and said, “That will be $34.76.”
“$34.76!” She was indignant. “I asked for $20.00.”
“The machine’s broken,” he said, not bothering to hide his smile at her anger.
“What if I haven’t got 34.76?” she asked, decibels mounting. “And what if you’re waiting to skim my credit card? I asked for $20.00 and $20.00 is what I wanted. I asked for $20.00, clear as a bell. You were standing right there. $20.00!”
He was laughing outright now.
In the end she paid it, emptying her wallet. No treat for her after work today.
INNATE DIGNITY:
My father was in a nursing home. It had a distinctive odour, though the staff was always pleasant and there was a large black cat that thrived on attention.
That day, Dad was sitting with the others around the edge of the recreation room, waiting to be served birthday cake at the monthly celebration. He didn’t need to be tied into the chair, as some did, but his once sturdy frame slumped, watery blue eyes had trouble focusing on me when I greeted him. He didn’t seem to recognize me and didn’t talk…until someone handed him a small plate with a square of cake in the centre. He took it, then looked her in the eye, nodded and said, “I thank you.”
1. noun: dignity: the state or quality of being worthy of honour or respect.(Free On-Line Dictionary)
2. Dignity is a term used in moral, ethical, legal, and political discussions to signify that a being has an innate right to be valued and receive ethical treatment.(Wikipedia)